How long have you been at SP
I began working with Starting Point in April, 2019.
What is your Role title
Mentoring Lead (Traffic Light Mentoring)
What does your role involve
My role involves a number of different aspects. I receive all the referrals for 16-25 year olds, and organise to meet with new referrals as soon as possible. I hear young people’s stories, and together with the young person, begin to individually, tailor a mentoring plan that will best suit their needs. I also meet with the young people quite quickly after the initial introduction, to encourage engagement with Starting Point and answer any questions they may have. Another aspect is mentoring a number of young people myself, for a longer period of time.
I also assess and oversee mentor/mentee matches.
Another part of my role is recruiting, training, supervising and communicating with all our volunteer mentors. I receive their applications, process the paperwork, and make sure they have everything they need to embark on a positive journey as a mentor.
Rewards of the role
So many rewards! It is a privilege to share in the growth and development of so many young people. I love hearing their stories, and feel honoured that people share some of the most difficult parts of their lives with me, so that we can work through it together and come out the other side in a healthier, more positive state. Working together to find what young people love and are passionate about is also a huge reward. I get excited when someone tries something for the first time, or maybe the 100th time, and they are successful. Ask a young person who has had a success story recently, and they’ll tell you I get so excited, I jump up and down and want to dance in public!!
I also love working with volunteers, and seeing their passion and gifts utilised in such a powerful and positive way. Our volunteers are awesome humans, who bring so much experience, knowledge and enthusiasm to their mentoring roles.
Another highlight, or reward, is the way the Starting Point team work together. Everyone is very respectful of each other’s gifts and talents, and the conversations we share are all driven by how we can best serve the young people of Reading. Working with such passionate people, who love what they do each day, makes it a joy to go to work each day.
Why work at SP/why help young people
Starting Point stood out to me as an organisation, initially because of its values. We strive to unlock potential in young people, enable young people to achieve their dreams and sustain positive change, and then release young people into the world with the confidence and skills to continue striving. Starting Point also enable each young person to be met where they are at, as an individual with a life journey, who deserves space and time to be heard. I also really loved the ethos of serving young people in Reading in a practical way.
Why help young people? Working with young people has always been something I have done, either directly or indirectly. Too often, young people have lots of expectations riding on them, yet they don’t have the skills, role models or capacity to help them achieve those expectations. Rather than complaining about the next generation, or moaning about how things were better back in my day, I would rather get stuck in, be a positive role model, make a general impact, and help influence young people in Reading so that they can be the difference in future.
Typical day of work
I am an early riser, so I think best in the mornings and tend to get a lot of paperwork and administrative tasks done quite early. I start each day by checking my calendar for the next day, and contacting my mentees to confirm our meeting times/locations. I like a strong black coffee to clear my head, and drink plenty of water whilst I am tapping away at my computer too! I receive a lot of text messages, so I will also respond to these and make sure I answer any phone calls from the night before. For the rest of the day, I am running to catch buses, running to coffee shops, or running to a meeting! You will often see me dashing through town to get from one appointment to the next. Young people typically like to meet up in the afternoons or evenings, so the rest of the day is spent catching up with them, meeting new referrals, or meeting with volunteers. A lot of coffee and tea is consumed each day!
Hobbies and interests
I have a family of my own, and I love spending time with them. I go and watch them in the various sports they play and compete in, help them with schoolwork and generally navigate life. I also enjoy hosting social events in our home and regularly have people visit with us.
I love going to the gym and pretending I am really fit and strong. I’m not really but I can pretend! I am interested in nutrition and how certain foods/exercise affect our moods and general health. If I have some time to myself, I enjoy reading and writing, and taking our motorbike out into the countryside for a ride on a sunny day. I also love learning, and will educate myself about different topics of interest.
Your dream for SP
My dream is for Starting Point to grow into a project that is replicated all over the UK, not because we want to be the biggest and best, but because we want to help as many young people as we can, remove the barriers that stand in their way, and support them into a life of their choosing.